Pregnancy does not prohibit continuing to have sex normally, since it does not harm the baby and does not imply a risk of miscarriage. Only in certain cases will the couple have to give up sex.
During pregnancy, many couples give up sex because of unjustified fears. In addition, the joy of the first few days is often replaced by a decrease in sexual desire. What is the reason for this? There are many reasons for this, depending on the woman's body and her emotions.
Is sperm good for the baby during pregnancy
During pregnancy, the psychological state of the woman or the father-to-be can influence sexual relations. But it is important to know that if your pregnancy does not present any particular problem, there is no contraindication that implies to stop making love. If the parents are healthy, there is also no risk of transmitting diseases to the fetus.
Making love during pregnancy. How does the baby feel?
A healthy couple can continue to have sex in a normal way, without any risk to the child. Inside the mother's womb, the baby is perfectly protected, surrounded by the amniotic fluid, the membranes and especially by the uterine walls.
The cervix, which is located at the bottom of the vagina, can get excited during intercourse, but there is no danger: besides being resistant, it has a mucous plug that measures a few centimeters in diameter and seals the entrance to the uterus. Thus, it is impossible for the sex to touch the child during penetration.
Semen is also not dangerous and has no effect on the pregnancy, because the abundant secretions that are characteristic of pregnancy prevent both bacteria and sperm from entering the uterus through the vagina. There is a possibility that a more resistant spermatozoon will reach the amniotic sac, but it will not harm the baby in any way.
Contrary to what many parents-to-be think, the fetus does not feel any discomfort when its parents make love, quite the contrary. It seems that the endorphins (substances produced by the brain when we feel a pleasant sensation) circulating in the blood of the mother, have a calming effect on the nervous system of the baby.
It has also been observed that the uterine contractions that occur when the woman has an orgasm do not create any damage and it is even considered a stimulation of the motor activity of the fetus.
Is sex allowed during pregnancy?
Many couples ask if sex is allowed during pregnancy. The answer is: in principle, yes!
At the beginning of pregnancy, some women don't feel like having sex: nausea makes them feel uncomfortable, they feel tired and lack energy. Moreover, it is not only the pregnant woman's body that changes, but her entire environment. As soon as she feels comfortable in her new state, her sex life usually returns to normal. Some women, on the other hand, experience much more pleasure, which is usually very personal and varies from person to person.
In the second trimester of pregnancy, the body has gradually become accustomed to the change. Many women feel particularly well: their skin is glowing with freshness and their breasts are swelling. They feel more like having sex. Some women even experience sex more intensely during pregnancy. This is because the uterus and genitals receive more blood flow, which can increase the feeling of pleasure.
Towards the end of pregnancy, when the belly becomes larger and larger, many women no longer feel fit enough to be sexually active, and their belly also gets in the way to some extent. When a woman no longer feels like having sex during this phase of pregnancy, it is important to talk about it as a couple. The partner should be understanding!
How long can you have sex during pregnancy?
In theory, a pregnant woman can have sex until she gives birth. However, most pregnant women tend to stop having sex in the days leading up to their due date.
Can you hurt the baby during sex?
Many couples wonder if they can hurt their unborn baby during sex. Don't worry! The baby is developing in the fluid-filled amniotic sac and cannot be affected by movement during sex. Sperm can't harm the baby either, because the cervix is closed with thick mucus that usually prevents sperm from passing. On the other hand, sperm can play a role in naturally facilitating labor in preparation for delivery. This is because seminal fluid contains prostaglandins, hormones that can facilitate labor and help the cervix dilate. Having sex can only trigger contractions when birth is imminent.
What postures or sexual positions are particularly suitable during pregnancy?
The rule of thumb is that anything pleasurable is allowed, unless there are specific restrictions. Only sex toys should be avoided, to avoid the risk of injury.
Does sex increase the risk of miscarriage?
Only in exceptional cases, such as bleeding, slight opening of the cervix or loss of amniotic fluid, is it recommended to seek immediate medical attention.
When is it best not to have sex during pregnancy?
If you have a complicated pregnancy, it is best not to have sex. For example, women whose cervix is significantly shortened or not closed properly should consult their doctor to find out if they can have sex.
If the partner has an infection such as genital herpes or chlamydia, abstain from sex until the infection is completely healed.
